When I was paying off my debt, I abstained from clothes shopping (or any unnecessary shopping) for 6 months. In the beginning, it was hard – I went through withdrawals just like any addict (albeit, they were probably less painful then, say, heroin withdrawals…). To my surprise, though, when I hit the 6 month finish line (along with paying off my debt), I found it hard to get back into the swing of shopping. By this time, I had started a budget, regained control of my finances, and was more mindful about just how big of a dent clothing shopping can be in your finances.
So, I continued to turn my back on shopping. I could hear it taunting me every time I drove past an Express or Target store. I didn’t listen though. I had bigger and better things to do with my finances.
It’s been almost a year since my shopping fast, and I still have yet to become a full-blown addict again. Sometimes when I step foot into the clothing section of Macy’s, I’m grateful when they don’t have anything I really like.
Unfortunately, this was not the case this weekend.
I went Christmas shopping with Lloyd on Friday and alone (red alert!) on Saturday.
Wouldn’t you know it, Macy’s and Old Navy’s winter collections just happened to be my exact style and they just happened to be having sales.
But don’t you worry, my frugal friends, I may have an inner shopping demon, but I still never buy clothes out of my budget. Here’s what I scored:
- Olive green stretchy turtleneck with cute button details (for work or nights out): $14.50 (originally $29.00)
- Brown work shirt with chest pattern detail: $9.99 (originally $29.99)
- 2 sweater cardigans – gray and cream – with diamondy-buttons: $20.65 each

- 1 pair of my favorite jeans (regular so I can wear with flats instead of heels): $20.65
- 1 long-sleeved V-neck tee: $5.60
- 1 short-sleeved crew neck tee: $7.00
- 1 short-sleeved V-neck tee: $7.00
- 1 coat for family member’s Christmas present: $24.32 (steal of the day!)
- 1 pink scarf: $0.70
As you can see, Old Navy was having some massive sales. Big sales always help to bind and strengthen the relationship between my inner shopping mongrel and my frugal self.
In the end, I think ~$131.00 is a reasonable price for 2 sweaters, 5 shirts, 1 coat, 1 pair of jeans, and 1 scarf – especially now that I don’t make shopping a regular occurrence like I used to. Plus, I get points for knocking a Christmas present off my list.
When I got home that night, I could still feed the addiction’s hunger wanting to be fed. I considered going to Gordman’s and seeing if they had any of these boots on sale. But, I thought it better to starve the beast back into her submissive state and I resisted grabbing my keys and racing out to my car. Instead I enjoyed a fun, and free, night at home with my guy.